What do you do when one day you advice someone to have only those people in his or her life who add value, who somehow contribute and the very next day someone you hold incredibly close to your heart suddenly stops talking to you because they felt you 'advise them wrong'? Is the other person not doing exactly what you said someone should do? Do you blame the other person for not being insightful enough? Or respect their decision and maintain the distance? Because ultimately what you mean for someone is for them to decide, not yours. And how do you accept the other person's decision?
I somehow feel that this advise " advice someone to have only those people in his or her life who add value, who somehow contribute" is not proper. It is not necessary to have people in your life only if they add some value to you and benefit you in some way.
ReplyDeleteLife is not a business... Sometimes - even when you know that a particular person in your life is of no use to you and having them around you only pulls you down, you still cannot let them go... Sometimes letting them go is JUST not the right thing to do...
I do not know the context in which this was posted. But this is what I felt!!! :)
-- Chethan Manja